Attracting women is all about what you say, but this is where most guys get stuck—standing there like a deer in headlights, not knowing what to talk about. Look, I’ve been there. I once approached a girl and immediately she turned and said hi back I completely forgot everything I had planned to cause I got so flustered, you won’t believe I froze for like 7 seconds after she responded. It was so embarrassing I told her I would be right back and power walked away almost bumping into someone lol. Don’t judge I was 15 but I panicked. Not my finest moment. But it’s truly as easy as just following a few steps. Let me prove it to you.
If you do these, you’ll seduce anyone. Okay, maybe not that hot older lady you have been eyeing for a while now, but you get the point. Just change these two words in your sentences, and I promise you’ll start attracting more girls. All you have to do is this: instead of always asking, start telling her what you want. It’s really that simple.
Here’s an example:

Instead of saying, “Can we hang out sometime?” say, “I want to take you to this great spot I know.”
Instead of asking, “Can we grab coffee sometime?” say, “I want to take you for coffee tomorrow.”
Instead of, “Can you come over if you’re not busy?” try, “I want you to come over tonight. I’ll cook for you.”
Boom—instant upgrade. See the difference? Switching from Can we…? to I want… exudes confidence and masculinity, which women are naturally drawn to. Confidence is like barbecue sauce—everything’s better with it.
Here’s another tip:

Trigger the two senses women can’t ignore. The first one? Scent.
Women have 50% more olfactory receptors than men, meaning smell plays a huge role in attraction. Smell amazing, and you’ve already won half the battle. You’d learned this when you showed up to a date with a clean outfit and a nice cologne, instant win bruh! Invest in a good cologne, and don’t overdo it—one spritz, not six.
The second sense? Visuals:

Clear skin is an easy win here. If acne has been a problem, don’t worry—this isn’t about having flawless movie-star skin. Just keep it simple:
- Use a good face wash.
- Moisturize daily.
- Use sunscreen.
Trust me, this works. I started washing my face consistently, and suddenly, all the speed bumps(pimples) on my face. These basics go a long way.
When it comes to approaching women, let’s keep it stress-free. Follow these four rules:
- If she smiles at you, respond with a compliment about something she controls, like her outfit or jewelry. “I like how you put that outfit together today” is gold. Just don’t compliment her phone case—that’s weird.
- If she ignores you, move on. Don’t take it personally—she might be having a bad day or just isn’t interested. Forcing it won’t help, and no one likes the guy who lingers like an uninvited party guest.
- If she says hi back, skip the compliment and dive straight into a conversation. Keep it light: “How’s your day going?” works every time.
- If she misses your hello, assume she didn’t hear you—maybe she’s got headphones in or it’s loud. Just start again. Unless she’s actively avoiding you, in which case… yeah, move on, champ.
Physical attractiveness:

Ever heard of the “halo effect”? It’s real. Anything negative—like poor hygiene—can overshadow all your good traits faster than you can say “Oops.” I learned this when I went on a hike, skipped a shower, and thought I could get away with a quick cologne spritz. Spoiler alert: I couldn’t.
Keep it simple:
- Smell good.
- Have a clean, fresh appearance.
- Look put together.
Science backs this up—studies show that disgust lowers perceived attractiveness. So, don’t give her a reason to think, Ew. Show up looking and smelling like the best version of yourself, and you’re golden.
Now for texting:

The biggest mistake guys make? Being predictable. Either they reply faster than a cheetah chasing a gazelle, or they play dumb games by waiting hours to respond. Don’t be that guy. Instead, mix it up. Reply quickly when you’re free, and take your time when you’re not. Keep her intrigued—like when you’re watching Netflix and it asks, “Are you still watching?” Yes, Netflix, and she’ll still be texting if you keep her guessing.
Finally, let’s talk deadpan humor:

This is your secret weapon. When she says something, hit her with an absurd, obviously joking response and follow it up with a smirk. For example, if she mentions she’s going to yoga, say, “Oh, nice. I’ve been banned from three yoga studios for being too flexible.” It’s ridiculous, it’s funny, and it shows confidence. Trust me—women love humor with a touch of charm.
Attracting women doesn’t have to be complicated. With these tips—switching to I want statements, triggering the right senses, following simple rules for approaching, and using humor—you’ll already stand out. Give it a shot, and if it works, you owe me a coffee. Or, you know, at least a thank-you text. Later boys
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